While letting go seems to be the hardest, I found me on the crossroad, we had part ways with my “dear” Complain. That tough moment when you realize that so much is being taken from you, when you realize you are being used, you are giving without receiving, sorry I’m very much old school, I believe love should be a two way street, but no, it was never like that with complain. I realized overtime that I seem to be the one who does a lot of praising, praising my dear Complain. So I finally grew a tough skin and decided to have that deep last conversation with ex-partner “Complain”, which went like this,
“Dear Complain, I wish I have known you for who you are from the beginning, you have been nothing but a total waste of my precious time, even through a lot of positives in my life you seem to have always been synced with the negatives and you sadly pulled me down to your level. You helped withhold happiness from me because every time when I noticed an opportunity to celebrate the small and huge victories, you always reminded me of every reason why I needed to pause with the celebration. It pains me to think that you never reminded me that after a pause I still needed to resume and celebrate, I only realize now that you did this because of your selfishness, How did I not see that it’s always has been about you the whole time? Well anyway it does matters no more because I’m leaving you, I’m finally happy to realize that I always had strength from within and now of all times, I have decided to use my strength, this is my goodbye to you. Sadly I won’t say it was nice being around you, because honestly, my time with you was a total waste of my precious time. Well on the brighter side I must really emphasize I’m never going to miss you. by the way, it was really easy getting your replacement, I must mention to you I’m dating Contentment and we are so freaken happy together. You have blocked my moving forward so bad and I really wonder why I got really stuck with you even after realizing you were crossing me with a whole lot of other people out there(Cheater), have a nice life, I’m afraid I can’t be part of it”.
OK, just to share my a bit of how my union was with Complain, so he made me believe that I should always remember him every time I had something I have always wanted going on, complain would advice me to ignore it all because my “Mr” is so selfish…what is sad is that as you read this, something from within is validating that you have been in the same affair like mine, well it’s never too late to say goodbye I must say.
For a change, would you please forget about the things that are not going right in your life? Would you please look around,Do you see how far you’ve come from where you were yesterday? Remember those days when you thought if you had what you now thankfully have, you’d be the happiest person alive?
I look at everyday and realize that everyone has that one thing that they ought to be thankful for, but in opposite, it looks very easy to complain about what we don’t have and overlooking what we have, meanwhile there’s a land. It’s about time we turned the table that every time complain looked like a closer escape we ignore and chose the next exit. Appreciating what you have opens a room for even more. after all, I’m still waiting for that one person who will come a show me the results that came out after complaining….
AWAY WITH THE COMPLAINS .
“If your mind is in it, you can achieve it” Hlulani