I found myself leaking very hard, being one of those girls who are self-proclaimed “Girls with tough skins”, I surprised myself, while tears were rolling down my precious chins, questions racing with athletes pace in my head, more like, “But Why”, “But Why Hee”, “But Why Hlulani”, So I want to call this a boy drama, one that is now decorated with pretty names as if the society has accepted its dramatic nature, one that one when you turn from different directions it appears to really mutual in almost every girl, to a point where some of our fellows can identify a broken hearted girl when they see one, that’s how experienced they are, What pains me the most is that my very own little sister is likely to go through the same routine like many other girls, the young one’s coming after me are likely to find the pro’s who will advice them on how to go through the pain, BUT my biggest question is have our fellow brothers become really cruel and cold to notice wrong from right.
Is it just part of our destinies to find ourselves unnecessarily vulnerable, all because a boy was involved. How did we reach a point where girls have to be bottling up the pain while they put a face? Is it OK to break the trust she was likely to have on the brother coming her way? Have you realized you have dealt badly with her confidence? Have you realized she’s now walking in pieces, all because she trusted you with a precious part of her?